Pow

I sit on the sturdy kitchen chair, waiting for my breakfast while Mamma stands at the stove. My big sister Kristin walks in quietly and doesn’t look at me at all. I must have heard her get into trouble the day before, but calm has lingered overnight, and I’ve forgotten this morning to be scared. I don’t even tense as she strides into the room. As I daydream, Kristin walks up behind me, inches from our mother’s back, perfectly between the two of us. She pauses. At fourteen, she is twice my height and more than twice my age. Her fist flies up, high and fast, then smashes down on top of my head. Somehow, her hit doesn’t make a sound except in my skull, which echoes with a metallic clang.

Mamma keeps cooking. It was a silent POW, like in the batman show with the volume knob turned all the way to the left. White lights sparkle in front of my filling eyes. I am back to my senses and back to watching out for the unpredictable.  If I make a sound or if I cry, it will only be worse for me later. Shame settles into my empty belly. I look at the white table, at the circle of clock on the wall. The red second hand moves fast enough that I can sit very still and watch it go all the way around, across the small black lines that mean minutes, past each of the big numbers that tell hours. Kristin sits down and takes a sip of orange juice.

I earned my head bash by being a tattle. Like the chimp spy Mata Hairi, sidekick to Lancelot Link on Saturday morning TV, I was recruited to watch my sister. Kristin had wanted to go for a walk, but mom knew she wanted to smoke, to escape rules and control, so she ushered me along. I was excited to walk all the way around the block with this tall, powerful sister. I loved the after-dinner walks I’d sometimes take with my dad. He would smoke a cigar and point out interesting things about the bark on trees or the short summer lives of insects. So, a walk around the block was an adventure.

As soon as Kristin and I turned the second corner, though, just out of sight of our house, she retrieved her cigarette and matches from their hiding place in her sock. She lit up and looked hard at me. You can’t tell, she announced. I took her statement at face value–not just that I shouldn’t tell, but that in fact, I couldn’t. I was unable to tell on her. Her blond hair hung in straight lines next to her face, her expression a blend of defiance and determination.  I walked under the umbrella of her authority and in the plume of her cigarette smoke all the way around the block.

Later that day, mom sat me down and looked at me hard.  Did your sister Kristin smoke with you today?  Telling me as she stared into my eyes, Don’t lie.  I can tell by your eyes if you are lying.  Of course, I lied the first time she asked, and probably the second time, too.  I was aware of the treachery of telling on my sister.  But Mamma could read my eyes and my mind. I can see you are lying. Did she smoke?

I looked at my mother’s face and realized I was caught.  I crumbled and started to cry hard. I did see Kristin smoke! I’m sorry I lied. I wasn’t supposed to tell.

And then a quiet day. I had forgotten all about it before Kristin walked into the kitchen the next morning.  Pow.

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Kristin’s hands on my shoulders on a holiday morning.

 

 

12 thoughts on “Pow

  1. Ruth A Possehl

    YEOW to POW.
    Your writing of this incident filled me with angst. Talk about being cornered. I love that you relate your childhood bind to the Saturday morning Mata Hairi program.( No wonder we found one way to survive through TV!)

    And the photo!!

    Love to you. . . thank you, Jenny Lynn.
    Ruth

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  2. Interesting title-POW. I saw that and read “prisoner of war.” I felt your longing for the sister who would be your unconditional friend and let you enjoy her company. I’m sorry it came at such a price. Wow. :/ “Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.” Pema Chodron

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    On Tue, Oct 15, 2019 at 12:11 PM The More I Write wrote:

    > Jenny-Lynn posted: “I sit on the sturdy kitchen chair, waiting for my > breakfast while Mamma stands at the stove. My big sister Kristin walks in > quietly and doesn’t look at me at all. I must have heard her get into > trouble the day before, but calm has lingered overnight, and ” >

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  3. dubrav01

    Concisely and unerringly described incident, and the look of that older sister’s hand like a claw on your shoulder! Well told, Jenny-Lynn, and the writing just gets better and better.

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